I Loved You Enough

I Loved You Enough....

to ask where you were going,

with whom,

and what time you would be home.



I Loved You Enough....

to insist that you save

your money and buy

a bike for yourself even though we

could afford to buy one for you.



I Loved You Enough....

to be silent and let

you discover that your

new best friend was a creep.



I Loved You Enough....

to make you take a Milky Way

back to the

drugstore (with a bite out of it)

and tell the clerk,

"I stole this yesterday and

want to pay for it."



I Loved You Enough....

to stand over you for

two hours while you cleaned

your room,

a job that would have

taken 15 minutes.



I Loved You Enough....

to let you see anger, disappointment

and tears in my eyes.

Children must learn that their

parents aren't perfect.



I Loved You Enough....

to let you assume the

responsibility for your actions

even when the penalties

were so harsh they almost

broke my heart.

But most of all,



I Loved You Enough....

to say NO

when I knew you

would hate me for it.

Those were the most

difficult battles of all.

I'm glad I won them,

because in the end,

you won, too.


By by Erma Bombeck